Laughing at Oneself

The longer I live, the more I see the value of being able to laugh at myself. ย When I was young, I got my feelings hurt easily and it made me miserable. ย I didnโ€™t know it then, but I had a choice to accept or not accept things that were said about me or to me. ย I was just a shy kid and I felt very insecure.

As time went on, I realized that one of the best things I could do, was to laugh at myself and not take myself so seriously. ย When we let other people determine our opinion of ourselves, then we give our power away to people who do not care about us.

When I finally realized that I was doing this, I couldnโ€™t believe that I had let it happen. ย But, I needed to know what I was doing, before I could learn to deal with it. ย When I did, it changed everything.

When someone tried to embarrass me, I realized that it said more about them than it did me. ย When I made a mistake, I laughed first. ย It made it funny and it took the pressure off. ย I didnโ€™t need to be trying to be perfect all the time. ย I learned to revel in my imperfection.

I found that I could make people laugh and I loved it. ย My favorite thing to do is to find the humor in a situation, and then share my perspective with others. ย When they laugh at my jokes, I am in heaven. ย I wish I had discovered this early on. ย I might have become a comedienne.

Again and again I remember the influence of my father and his positive self-image. ย He liked himself and did not let others make this determination for him. ย I think it never even occurred to him that people would not like him. ย It wouldnโ€™t have mattered if they did or not anyway. ย It would not have changed the way he felt about himself.

It has been said that laughing is good medicine. ย I know that humor has made a positive impact on me for a long time now. ย So, I intend to give myself a good dose of it for the rest of my life.

 

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