Cleaning House (Detachment)

 

I have discovered something in my life that is giving me some peace of mind.  Since I have become a “senior citizen, I am finding that the less I own, the happier I am.  Cleaning house has become more of a detachment from stuff than doing cleaning chores.  I have only begun to purge my residence of the unwanted, unneeded, and just plain, old clutter that surrounds me in my home.

But lately, I have been digging deeper, into my mind.  Guess what I am finding?  More stuff to “get rid of.”  Not only do I have tons of useless information that weighs me down and messes up my thinking, but I am finding negative thought patterns and other “downers” that clog up the workings of my brain.  I may not be able to rid myself of the useless information, but I can certainly work on the negative thought patterns.  But, where do I begin?

Perhaps I should write them down as I think of them and give each of them a category.  Detachment, it seems to me, is recognizing the problem, thing, or idea that is blocking my progress as a truly evolving human being.  Only then, can I begin to rid myself of this destructive behavior.

I know, that in the past, detachment has given me a deep sense of relief, once I recognized the source of my distress.  Maybe it is because we live in such a materialistic world, that there is a such a need to unburden ourselves.  Or maybe, I just think too much, and it’s mostly my thinking that is cluttered.  Either way, detachment has proved to be a very useful tool in my quest for contentment.

So, I think I will begin with a categorized list and parse out the most important ones from the more trivial ones.  Then I will create a “plan of detachment.”  I’ll have to try it out with one or two things and see how it goes.  Either way, if it works out or not, I will have begun my journey to clean my house, inside and out.  This is only step one of the process, and I can’t wait to clear the cobwebs, literally and figuratively in my life!

 

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2 thoughts on “Cleaning House (Detachment)

  1. Kevin

    Detaching is sometimes very difficult. I gotten rid of things only to find value latter on. How do we decide?

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    1. Lora Marie Wade Post author

      Well Kevin, I certainly don’t have the answer. But, I have had your experience as well. Still, I have also found that far more of the objects I have gotten rid of, I have never used in the first place. Gifts that have been given to me has always been a problem. I once read though, to take an object and hold in your hand. Then, look at it and ask yourself if you have ever used it, did you want it in the first place and could you replace it easily if needed.
      If you could see my house, you would find that I haven’t gotten very far in the process. But, I am working on it.
      Thanks for asking my opinion. It has made me think about these considerations again. And especially thanks for reading my blog AND commenting. It makes me very happy!

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