There are many gifts of love that one can give another person. The holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions are not the only times we give gifts. In fact, of all the gifts there are to give, time itself may be the greatest one of all. To me, it is the one I treasure the most in my life. “Being there” with someone is an extraordinary gift because it comes from the heart and soul.
Expensive gifts that a person can see, cost money. One must possess some disposable income in order to give these gifts. A person can give these gifts and because they are tangible, they can be seen by anyone. But the most precious gifts cannot be seen in this way. One has to be present physically to observe and experience these gifts. This is not to say that monetary gifts are inferior. Sometimes they can provide what is greatly needed. They are just different. Whatever one gives to another person, the most important thing is the intention in one’s heart.
In our society, we have come to a point where face to face interaction can be avoided. We can use devices to send tangible gifts without any other interaction. But when push comes to shove a person craves the company of another human being. A hug, an ear to listen, just one’s physical presence can be the gift a person treasures the most. I know that this is true for me. And I have had the experience of being the receiver of this precious gift in the most difficult days of my life.
When one faces a tragic loss, tangible gifts, such as cards and flowers are very much appreciated, especially when distance is a factor. But having the physical presence of a loved one, a friend, a person of faith can make a profound, positive difference in the life of a person in distress.
Grief, illness, loneliness and depression can be lessened by the company of a family member or friend. The touch of a hand or a hug, if that person wants or needs it, can be the most precious gift of all.
Prayer is a powerful gift that can be given from afar when one cannot be physically present. In all the possible gifts one can give, whatever is given in love is the most powerful and lasting. For these are the ones that continue to bless us long after the time they are given. They live on in memories, and in one’s heart and can last forever.